stewardship

Stop Planting Weeds And Start Planting Oak Trees: How Great Leaders Think

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Most leaders don’t fail due to lack of skill; they stall because of how they think. That is the central thread tying together comfort zones, scarcity, ego, and the addiction to short-term approval. The episode opens with gratitude for a growing community and a clear aim: help Christian professionals align their leadership with biblical wisdom that produces lasting fruit. We anchor the conversation in Proverbs 23:7 and the call to renew the mind. When thinking shifts, behavior follows. When behavior shifts, culture changes. And when culture changes, results compound. The goal is more than profit; it is godly success that stands up in the light, serves people well, and points to a larger purpose.

We first dismantle the obstacles that keep leaders average. Comfort zone gravity makes small thinking feel safe, like staying under warm covers on a cold morning. Scarcity programming convinces us the pie is fixed, which leads to micromanagement and bottlenecks that choke enterprise value. Fear of looking stupid traps potential in silence; better to be a rookie on a rocket ship than captain a sinking one. Short-term scoreboard addiction rewards quick optics over legacy impact. The lone wolf myth taxes you with ignorance. And confusing servant leadership with people-pleasing weakens standards. Each obstacle masquerades as wisdom, but the throughline is fear. The remedy is courage: name it, face it, and kill it.

From there we outline seven thinking patterns of great leaders. First, they think big because they serve a big God, refusing visions sized only to present resources. They plant oak trees, not annuals. Second, they put people first, knowing profit follows value creation and that serving employees multiplies service to customers. Third, they think without lines, refusing artificial boundaries and industry myths by returning to first principles. This mindset invites calculated risk and fresh questions that unlock step-change improvements rather than incremental tweaks. Fourth, they think long term, trading applause now for compounding impact later, measuring success beyond quarters to transformed lives and durable culture.

Fifth, they operate from abundance, aligning with John 10:10 and rejecting the lie of scarcity. Abundance expands collaboration, raises standards, and loosens the grip of control. Sixth, they think continually, staying allergic to “I already know that” and maintaining an open, learning posture that accelerates adaptation. A mind works like a parachute: useful only when open. Seventh, they think stewardship, not ownership, treating money, people, customers, and opportunities as God’s and themselves as managers. Stewardship elevates accountability and precision; it fuels integrity in small things so God can entrust greater things.

To put this into practice, we offer a 30-day challenge: stretch your goals tenfold and share them, deliver daily acts of unexpected value, break one sacred-cow rule that no longer serves the mission, and ask five people how you can serve them better, then act on it. Alongside that challenge, use prompts to audit your mindset: will your 80-year-old self thank today’s choices, where did you choose abundance over fear, and what did you learn that made you uneasy? The transformation of thinking is the foundation of transformed leadership. When vision enlarges, hearts expand, and service deepens, organizations become places where excellence and faith reinforce each other. That is godly success: courageous thinking, people-centered action, and stewardship that outlasts any title.

The Parthenon Principle: The 4 Pillars of Christian Business

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Building a successful business that honors God requires more than just good intentions – it demands intentional structure and biblical principles. In our latest podcast episode, we explored the concept of the four pillars that can support and strengthen any Christian business: Profit, People, Excellence, and God.

The inspiration for this framework comes from the ancient Greek Parthenon, a structure built with 96 pillars that has withstood storms, wars, and centuries of challenges since its construction around 447-432 BC. Similarly, businesses need strong pillars to weather economic storms and marketplace challenges. In Solomon’s temple, two pillars were even named Jachin (“He will provide”) and Boaz (“In Him is strength”), symbolizing how God’s provision and strength undergird everything we build.

The first pillar, Profit, is often misunderstood in Christian circles. Contrary to some beliefs, profit isn’t inherently evil – it’s a tool for kingdom advancement when managed with integrity. As Luke 16:10-11 reminds us, faithfulness in handling worldly wealth is connected to stewarding true spiritual riches. Christian businesses should generate revenue ethically, reinvest profits for community impact, and maintain financial transparency. Practical steps include conducting quarterly ethical reviews of revenue sources and establishing dedicated funds for ministry and community support.

The People pillar recognizes that everyone in business interactions – employees, customers, vendors, and stakeholders – bears God’s image. Matthew 22:39 instructs us to “love your neighbor as yourself,” a command that extends into the workplace. This translates to fair wages, growth opportunities, prayer support, exceptional customer care, and community engagement. Business leaders can implement employee feedback surveys, host faith-based discussions, and partner with local ministries to strengthen this pillar.

Excellence, our third pillar, reflects our commitment to honor God through our work. As Colossians 3:23 states, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Booker T. Washington defined excellence as “doing a common thing in an uncommon way” – a perfect description for how Christian businesses should operate. This involves continuous improvement, attention to detail, and staying humble while celebrating accomplishments. Setting measurable quality goals and recognizing achievements aligned with faith-based values creates a culture of excellence.

The fourth and foundational pillar is God. Every decision from strategic planning to daily operations should reflect a commitment to glorify Him. Proverbs 3:5-6 guides us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” This means incorporating prayer into decision-making, integrating biblical principles throughout the organization, and openly sharing how faith shapes business practices.

Implementing these four pillars might start with a leadership workshop, continue with monthly progress reviews and mentorship programs, and include annual assessments of how well the business aligns with these principles. Resources like “The Good Book on Business” by Dave Kael and “Doing Business by the Good Book” by David Stewart provide additional guidance, while organizations like C12 Group and Christian Businessmen’s Connection offer community support.

Leading a Christian business isn’t just about making money – it’s a calling to reflect Christ in the marketplace. When we build on these four pillars, we create businesses that not only stand firm against challenges but also leave a lasting legacy that honors God and impacts lives for His glory.

Recognizing and Managing Energy Vampires, Chronic Critics, and Other Challenging Personalities

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As Christian business leaders, we encounter various personalities in our professional journey. While many relationships energize and inspire us, some can drain our resources and distract us from our God-given mission. Understanding these challenging personalities and developing biblical strategies to manage them is crucial for maintaining effective leadership and organizational health.

In our latest podcast episode, we explored six specific personality types that can potentially undermine your leadership effectiveness if not properly managed. These include chronic complainers, time wasters, energy vampires, manipulators, chronic critics, and boasters. Each presents unique challenges that require discernment, boundaries, and grace-filled responses.

The chronic complainer constantly focuses on problems without offering solutions. They drain emotional energy and create a negative atmosphere that can spread throughout your organization. When dealing with these individuals, it’s important to politely but firmly limit the time spent listening to complaints and redirect conversations toward solutions. Ask questions like, “What steps do you think we can take to address this issue?” This shifts the dynamic from venting to problem-solving. As Zig Ziglar wisely noted, “Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining. It bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems.”

Time wasters frequently interrupt with non-urgent matters and engage in lengthy, unfocused conversations. They may lack awareness about the value of your time as a leader. Establishing clear expectations about meeting durations, using time management tools like agendas, and being direct yet gracious about your priorities can help manage these interactions. Remember that Jesus himself modeled the importance of retreating to focus on priorities (Luke 5:16).

The energy vampire is perhaps one of the most dangerous personalities for leaders. These individuals leave you feeling emotionally drained after every interaction. They may be overly needy, demanding constant attention and validation, or manipulative, using guilt or drama to keep you engaged. Guarding your heart (Proverbs 4:23) is essential when dealing with energy vampires. Set firm boundaries, offer limited support, and connect them with appropriate resources while praying for their healing and wholeness.

Manipulators use flattery, guilt, or pressure to influence your decisions, often with hidden agendas for personal gain. These individuals can seem charming and supportive but act primarily in their self-interest. Seeking discernment through prayer, maintaining transparency in all interactions, asserting clear boundaries, and surrounding yourself with godly counsel are effective strategies for dealing with manipulators. When necessary, loving confrontation guided by Matthew 18:15-17 may be required.

Chronic critics constantly point out flaws without offering constructive feedback. They create a culture of fear and defensiveness that erodes confidence and creates division. While constructive feedback is valuable, chronic criticism is demoralizing. When facing critics, evaluate whether their feedback has merit, respond with grace rather than defensiveness, set boundaries for engagement, and foster a positive organizational culture that discourages excessive negativity.

Finally, boasters seek attention and validation through self-promotion and exaggeration. They monopolize discussions, interrupt others, and dismiss others’ contributions. Dealing with boasters requires modeling humility, redirecting conversations to shared goals, setting clear boundaries, encouraging constructive contributions, and holding them accountable for their claims.

As Christian leaders, we’re called to lead with love, wisdom, and discernment. By recognizing these challenging personalities and implementing biblical strategies to manage these relationships, we protect our God-given mission and lead with greater effectiveness. Through prayer and practical approaches, we can navigate these relationships with grace while staying focused on God’s purpose for our leadership.

Remember Proverbs 3:5-6, trusting that God will guide your path as you face these leadership challenges. Develop a personal action plan by identifying these personalities and establishing appropriate boundaries. Strengthen your spiritual foundation through daily prayer and Scripture reading. Build a support network of godly mentors and positive team members. Train your team to recognize and manage these behaviors, and regularly evaluate your energy levels and time management to maintain a healthy balance.

The Biblical Art of Being an Exceptional Second-in-Command

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The Biblical Art of Being an Exceptional Second-in-Command

In today’s leadership-obsessed culture, we often celebrate those at the top while overlooking the critical role of those who stand beside them. Yet throughout scripture and business history, we find that behind every successful leader is an exceptional “number two” who amplifies vision, ensures execution, and brings stability to the organization.

The concept of being a great second-in-command is deeply rooted in biblical principles. As Harold Milby explains in his podcast, many of the Bible’s most influential figures served faithfully as number twos before stepping into more prominent leadership roles. Consider Timothy, who traveled with Paul, delivered his letters, and pastored churches under his guidance. Paul mentored Timothy closely, even calling him “my true son in the faith” (1 Timothy 1:2). What made Timothy exceptional was his teachability, loyalty, and courage to lead despite his youth and natural timidity.

Joshua provides another powerful example. Before leading Israel into the Promised Land, he spent years as Moses’ aide, accompanying him on Mount Sinai, leading armies against enemies, and serving faithfully in preparation for future leadership. His loyalty, humility, and faithfulness to the vision given to Moses prepared him for his own leadership journey. Rather than seeking recognition or attempting to overshadow Moses, Joshua remained devoted to supporting the mission God had established.

Similarly, we see this pattern with Elisha serving Elijah, Joseph serving as Pharaoh’s second-in-command during Egypt’s great famine, and Jonathan supporting David even though it meant relinquishing his own claim to the throne. Jonathan’s selfless support of David demonstrates the covenant nature of a true number two relationship—he risked his life to protect David and embraced a supportive role rather than grasping for power that could have been his by birthright.

Modern business provides equally compelling examples of exceptional second-in-command leaders. Gwen Shotwell as President and COO of SpaceX has translated Elon Musk’s ambitious vision into operational reality, driving 60% of the global commercial launch market and securing multi-billion dollar contracts. Similarly, Sheryl Sandberg joined Facebook in 2008 and helped scale revenue from $150 million to billions while growing the team from 1,000 to over 70,000 employees.

So what makes someone an exceptional number two? According to biblical principles, it starts with cultivating a servant’s heart. Jesus himself taught that “whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant” (Matthew 20:26). This servant leadership approach strengthens the primary leader, advances the organization’s mission, builds trust and unity, prepares for future leadership, and ultimately brings glory to God.

To excel as a second-in-command, Christian business leaders must blend spiritual maturity with practical skills. This includes cultivating that servant’s heart by praying for humility, listening actively to understand the leader’s vision, and stepping in to lighten their load when needed. Aligning completely with the vision means regular communication with the primary leader, asking clarifying questions, and then consistently reinforcing that vision with the broader team.

Providing wise counsel is another crucial aspect of the role. This requires thoroughly understanding the organization’s operations, market trends, and challenges, then offering feedback privately and respectfully. Using discernment about when to speak and when to listen demonstrates maturity, as does complementing the primary leader’s strengths by taking ownership of areas where they may need support.

Perhaps most crucially, a great number two builds the bridge from strategy to execution. While many leaders excel at casting vision, they may struggle with operational details. An exceptional second-in-command translates vision into actionable plans, manages projects, and ensures deadlines are met. This creates a powerful partnership where both leaders function in their areas of strength.

The position of second-in-command carries unique challenges. Feeling undervalued is common, as is the tension between maintaining loyalty while providing honest feedback. Managing relationships both up and down the organizational chart requires wisdom and emotional intelligence. Despite these challenges, serving as a number two is a high calling that combines humility, competence, and faithfulness.

Being a great number two isn’t about being second-best—it’s about faithfully stewarding the responsibilities entrusted to you while reflecting Christ’s character. As you excel in this role, you not only strengthen your organization but prepare yourself for future leadership opportunities in God’s perfect timing.